18 days

It was 18 days ago I last blogged. Yea, even mr. love gave a hint last week about my blogs. Nothing much to rant actually...... its the normal routine, day in day out... just like doing accounting on FIFO (first in first out) LIFO (last in first out) .. sigh!!!

It's close to 3 weeks I have not met mr. love. Tak rindu ke dia towards me???? *sighing..... My silence does not mean i'm not missing him. I hope I will not get used to this absence, cos' if I am, then, it means i bochap already... hmmm.... but then again, i know time has been a constraint. 

I left for KL on a one-day trip, without staying overnite with my girlfren. It was a much-look-forward trip, until, I was unwell days before that, and dragged days after that. hahaha!! The thoughts of having mr. love around on that day brought occasional smiles. Oh, the usual imagination that runs in my mind. Thinking that there's probably a surprise visit, hehhe... of course not being hopeful, but, u know how errr, unexpected he can be. But he did call to check on me. If i'm doing good. Leaving many advices not to roam around alone. You know, just like a little princess being guarded from afar afraid of going astray... *evil eyebrows up. appreciate much on his concern and care. 

How time flies.... Its soon gonna be the end of another year...... Will be attending 2 dinners coming year end. End Nov and end Dec. Will there be surprises dear this time?? I doubt so. Blogging about surprises, its been long too of not having surprises. hmmm..... 

Even time is limited for surprises right?? Kindda feel (not sure how to explain that feelings), its all mixed at times. Sometimes, i just wish that ..... ah, nevermind.......

What hasnt change for these 3 years is, the tele-conversation we have while he drives. The updates we have for each other, the teases, the sharings.... Alhamdulillah, its still going on despite the lesser time spent. And of course, LOVE for each other...... 

If only you know how much I miss you dearly.......  

boredom strikes

Im at the peak of my boredom..... added with tonnes of sleepiness weight on my eyes.... i can barely open them. Numbers written on my invoices minimise in size, with multiple strokes around it...., im super duper sleepy..... 

Last weekend, my time was taken up with bakings.. simply loooovveee doing it. First try on talam kacang merah was a success... and how i wish, mr.love could have a try on it.... a last minute order on tart was fulfilled.... with xtras given to mr.love..... 

Mr.love met me last week, the day i was home slightly early from my learning journey just to give me my hugs which he owed on my birthday. I do not know what to say of him, his unexpected surprises, his concern towards me, his crazy acts (will share a little bit soon), he is such a dear that one will treasure most. The reason why i love him.. 

We had our usual lunch this week at mcD with only me eating.. yeah, tt explains my ehm, chubbinesss.... and an unplanned date in the morning before my karaoke session wz a buddy in the evening.... many times i wonder how is life gonna be if mr.love and i stay together... will the house be filled with laughters. Are we gonna receive complaints from neighbours, haha... i wish things would be better than that. 

He was right when he asked, have i ever thought that i would be seeing him at the PS dinner? Have i ever imagined that i would be watching fireworks on new year's eve with him? Have i ever expect to have him showed me the way out on a busy road? It was neither close to our plans, and im thankful to Allah for the arrangements and unforgettable opportunities. I love him more than he could ever thought. 

And to sum it all, who would have thought to have your love one waving at u from him car at a petrol kiosk, when the train u are in passes by him.... 

dear, u are such a sweetheart u know that. Will u continue to do the same even thou we are together some days?

I know you are tired dear... it was clearly shown when u laid beside me.... im sorry dear, if im part of the reason you are worn out. But i always miss you... miss listening to u, miss arguing with u, miss teasing you thou i got teased in the end, miss being hugged, and the list goes on..... thank you dear for everything......

And i apologised for my shortcomings too...

Love you mr.love 

Alhamdulillah, im 34

When i was young, I used to be very excited comes oct 22, cos i will be showered with lots of love, gifts and treats.... but, as the age increases, the momentums change...... it becomes a normal daily routine....

Alhamdulillah, im contented to be receiving lots of bday wishes and doas through my fb, wassap, sms.... telling me that i have friends who still remember me in a way or another. Very much blessed. 

Mr.Love sudden change of lunch venue surprised me a lot... it never crossed my mind that he would want to try lunching at Star Vista. Which is just metres away from my building. Pleasant surprise indeed on a special day. I am very much appreciate the sacrification he made; to have something different and walking into candy empire wih me for a packet of honeycomb chox. So much love. 

Our 2nd day of lunch after almost 2 weeks of absence. 

Suddenly i feel so empty and lonely in me.... while i am blogging, no one is home... princess are next door, and mr.hubby not home yet. While i wish for a lil surprise; the least to be fetched at work, only to be left wz a message that he will be home late. I am right to say its just a normal daily routine. No more gifts that u expect to be showered with on your birthday... 

The cries behind the big big laughter......

Someone mentioned he owes me lots of hugs, which i still wonder why i was not given even one today. 

True confession: sad

Maybe, there shall not be anymore hugs..... *shoulders up*

letting it go.

There are things we dont want to happen, but have to accept
Things we dont wanna know, but have to learn...
And people we cant live wihout, but have to let go....

kenyataan

Apa yang kita impikan tak semestinya apa yang kita lalui..... itulah kenyataan.....

Drama sangkar, which i have been following online during my lunch hours, is an eye-opener..... the final episode which i watched today, was the truth that we have to face..... we cant be having everything we want...,

Two best-friend, of a different gender, have each other as a companion. The guy, comes from a rich family, while the girl, is his opposite... but, he had never looked down on her. They love each other but had never expressed it. Challenges after challenges she had to face, alone, because her companion, often ran away from his problems. Until the death of her mother, he was not beside her too.... and she finally accepted a proposal made by her own bestfriend's father. It was too late for him, when he expressed his love, cos she had made up her mind. But, she made him promise her that, he will continue to stay in the same house, and take care of her........ and he did. Her love for him is still strong, despite the status had changed to being his stepmom..... he cared for her, although he protest in silence. And one day, he decided to settle down with a girl who have been patiently loving him. He seeked her permission, and even agreed to stop his intention if she disagree. She was happy to tell him, this could be the best for them, thou it reflects in her eyes she was in much pain too....

The day he left their home, after his ceremony, he entered her room for the last time. Nothing was being said, but the expression on their faces explains it all.... they hugged for the last time with tears, and he kissed her on her forehead with that much love left..... 

What we hope to happen in life, may not turn out to be what we want. He was right when he said, she cant have everyhing. While she tried to face the challenges in life, he left her all alone. And its all too late by the time he realised it. Thats part and parcel of life isnt it..... oh well.....

Its been a tiring days... last week, one of aunt passed away. Was up the whole nite attending to the preparation of her funeral. Alhamdulillah, it went well, and it was my first in mandikan jenazah. 

Backaches slowly improving.... only to be down wih fever, flu and cough on friday.... must be the bug. 

Last mon, eve of eid adha, was arwah abah 16th annv..,, how time flies.... missing him terribly. 

My routine remains the same..... all smiles with that little secret kept within me..... truth of a life...... 

chats..

Wats left on the chats... was either not received or read....
Neither was any chats left for me to read....
Wen i mentioned everytg had changed slowly but surely...
It was denied with reasons....
It is the only mode of communication that we used to have before to keep each other updated or least the love going...
And i never failed to keep checking every now and then, waiting n hopeful of any chats left behind for me to read, only to be left disappointed lately......


And so i decided.......

true stubborness.....

And who holds the title for that?.......... mr.stubborn al-degil......
Cant blog more, he is just next to me.